Baltrum - should i break up with my boyfriend if im in love with someone else?

should i break up with my boyfriend if im in love with someone else?

im in love with this other guy... he said he would like to have something serious with me but, he believes that its not a good idea in the summer cause of the distance (he will be going around the greek islands with his yacht, while i will be on vacation with family but im not sure if we're going to be at the same islands)(he is greek and im american/greek) and because of this we might say things to eachother that may later hurt us. Should i leave the guy that im with now that loves me so much and is really long term, although i dont feel the same for him, to be with the one i love? im afraid to leave him because it will hurt him and although i dont love him i want us to be friends like we were before. he is a really great guy although he is short for me (he is 1,55m and im 1,78m LOL) i dont know what to do!! i cant keep on cheating on my boyfriend (the guy i love knows im with another and tells me to break up) but i dont know what to do!!! i broke up!!!!

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continue with both and enjoy.
Yes...
If you love someone else, it's time to break up with the old guy. Especially if you don't like your boyfriend now. It's time to end whatever you have going with your boyfriend if you really like someone else.
Stop cheating on your current boyfriend. You have to make up your own mind about this sweetheart. Either way you can only have one at a time. As far as breaking up and staying friends...don't count on it. You can't expect him to be able to be a friend with you when you have been cheating on him and are breaking up to be with another man. If I was your current boyfriend I would want you to just break up with me and stop wasting my time. You can't have your cake and eat it too.
Give a kiss to him and leave
Think carefully.. think all the possibilities if ever you break-up with you BF and be with the other guy.. Your the only person can answer that one!!
Life is too short. You need to move on with the other guy. There is no use in leading your boyfriend on. If you stay with your boyfriend because of his feelings you will be hurting both of you in the long run. If you married your boyfriend you didn't have the right kind of love for him this will hurt him even more. You will be unhappy and end up resenting him. Explain this to your boyfriend.
Just pick anyone of them, whom u love truely.
okay let me tell you from experience you should definitely leave your boyfriend for the guy you truly love you must be confused how in the hell can you stay with someone you don't love how can you truly be happy cheating on the man who loves you for some other man your cheating with. i recently just went through this let me tell you all your doing is hurting yourself and putting your self in a deeper whole of regret and trying to get out of the perdicerment your in. all i can say is do what your heart wants not what your brain thinks... the brain doesn't know the troubles of the heart don't be insecure about your choice and it feels like your hoping someone can tell you what to do and if you feel that way then who knows what your feeling just do what your heart wants and that should lead you to your true love...
If you don't love him then break up with him. You are not being fair to him or yourself. If you are in love with someone else, you should be with that person. You are only going to end up hurting your boyfriend in the long run especially if you keep cheating on him and leading him on. Nip it in the bud!
Go ahead if you feel like
just break up and go on be happy with the guy of your dreams and be honest to yourself and ur ex